Tuesday, April 1, 2025

Release Day! Saving Ellen by Maura Casey~ My Thoughts #SavingEllen @skyhorsepub @booksforwardpr

Happy Release Day!


Congratulations Maura
on the release today of
Saving Ellen!

Saving Ellen: A Memoir of Hope and Recovery by Maura Casey
Memoir, Women's Biographies, 336 pages
Published April 1, 2025 by Skyhorse

A coming-of-age memoir that follows a large, working-class Irish family as it plunges into chaos in the wake of a terminal diagnosis—and the author's own hidden struggle to endure when her sister's disease becomes the dark star around which they all revolve.

Financial privation and her father’s drunken scenes formed the backdrop to Maura Casey's childhood, but her sister Ellen’s years-long struggle with kidney disease consumed her whole family. Determined to see Ellen live to adulthood, her mother fought medical advice to donate a kidney at a time when organ transplants were medical miracles. She concealed the true impact of that decision, which would affect the family for years to come.

Set in Buffalo amidst the tumult of the 1960s and 70s, Saving Ellen traces the author's recovery from alcoholism and sexual assault and tells of her irrepressible older sister Ellen, who fought to claim her dream of becoming an athlete; her smart, feminist mother, whose World War II Army service prepared her to manage her own platoon of six children; and her adulterous, alcoholic father who, at the end, was haunted by his shortcomings and regrets. Despite the hard truths of her childhood, Saving Ellen is ultimately a story of humor at unexpected moments as well as the grace of reconciliation and gratitude.

Saving Ellen will appeal to those who have endured the stress of caring for a chronically ill family member, with all the fraught choices that entails. Readers who have experienced the unique insanity of living in a large alcoholic family will recognize the mix of madness and humor that forms the foundation of daily life. Casey's story has parallels to Monica Wood’s When We Were the Kennedys, which details the struggle her family began when her father died of a heart attack, and Jeannette Walls’ The Glass Castle, with its tale of family dysfunction and siblings trying to help one another cope in a dilapidated house with an unstable father.


My thoughts about Saving Ellen ~~ 

(I love to note the first lines of the books I'm reading. First lines can really grab a reader's attention and I love seeing where the author takes the reader after their first lines.)

First lines—"The floorboards groaned. The noise cracked in the silence between my father's wheezing snores. I froze on all fours, in full view of Dad's mountainous form, my panic rising."

I was first drawn to this story because of the kidney transplant issue that Ellen goes through in the early 70's when the procedure was not that common. I had a classmate who had to have a transplant when we were in high school so this story spoke to me on that level. Saving Ellen is so much more then Ellen's medical struggles. It is a story of the entire family and the dysfunction that was their lives in the 60's and 70's. 

The author does a great job telling the story of her family and all that they endured. This is a biographical memoir that reads like an expertly written fiction story. The words that flowed off of the pages kept me entranced and made me want to keep reading. The Casey family endured a lot, with ups and downs all over the place. Emotions ran high and pulled me in. And there are even surprising twists that complete the book in a satisfactory way. 

I received an ARC of Saving Ellen and this is my honest opinion of the book.

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About the author


Maura Casey grew up the youngest of six in a Buffalo, NY, Irish family. She began writing at 12 , turning her passion into a 30+ journalism career, winning over 40 awards. Maura is a former editorial writer for The New York Times and three other newspapers. Currently she writes a weekly column on Substack with thousands of subscribers called Casey's Catch. Readers can contact her through her column or her website, www.CaseyInk. She is a gifted editor, writing coach and public speaker.

Maura used the diaries she wrote as a teenager to help write the book. She was surprised to see that they had pages of dialogue, her mother’s wit, scenes of her sister’s determination and her father’s alcoholism. From her diaries she fashioned a narrative arc that became Saving Ellen: A Memoir of Hope and Recovery.

Maura lives on a small farm in Connecticut with her husband of 41 years, two golden retrievers and a cat who is Queen of the Barn. She has two adult children and two perfect granddaughters.  ~ Goodreads

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Release Day! Barely Visible by Kathleen Somers ~ My Thoughts #BarelyVisible @shewritespress

Happy Release Day!


Congratulations Kathleen
on the release today of
Barely Visible!

Barely Visible: Mothering a Son Through His Misunderstood Autism by Kathleen Somers
Nonfiction, Parenting & Relationships, 312 pages
Published April 1, 2025 by She Writes Press

For any parent who has ever struggled with a child’s difficult or peculiar behavior, this candid and compelling memoir about raising a child on the spectrum offers reassurance that you are not alone—and a path forward is possible.

When your child is diagnosed with autism, a million questions come to the surface and fear sets in. The discovery that they are high functioning comes as a relief—it may enable them to disguise their shortcomings. Or it may create additional problems.

Barely Visible is not a heroic tale of a champion parent. It’s a candid memoir of one mother’s struggle with the gray space between her son appearing one way on the surface, yet being quite different beneath it. Walking that fine line between when to say something and when to bite your tongue, hoping your child can handle life on his own, requires tremendous foresight and energy. How do you convince others to “cut your child some slack” when the kid they see looks like every other kid they know? How do you explain away behavior that, at face value, looks like the result of bad parenting? And how do you prevent others from discriminating against your child once you do disclose their disability?

Chronicling a journey spanning twenty-three years, Barely Visible is a mother’s admission of guilt, for choosing to ignore her son’s diagnosis initially; acceptance of defeat, for rarely knowing the right thing to do; and an acknowledgment of love—not only for her son, but also for herself.


My thoughts about Barely Visible ~~ 

(I love to note the first lines of the books I'm reading. First lines can really grab a reader's attention and I love seeing where the author takes the reader after their first lines.)

First lines—"Today's game was unlike the rest, so it killed me to be late."

Barely Visible was a heartbreaking, while also being uplifting, glimpse into what a family deals with when there is a diagnosis of autism. There are so many ups and downs, as well as all of the stages that family members go through as life marches onward. The author does a fantastic job of being real, describing the good days as well as the horrible days. I felt every bit of the struggle that they went through.

The author holds nothing back with her honestly about the struggles she, her husband, and her son went through and are continuing to go through. It was a hard arduous road but they learned to adapt and find out what worked for them. I am grateful for the insight that I got from reading this book as it opened my eyes to what life is like for friends of mine who are going down the same path. 

I received an ARC of Barely Visible and this is my honest opinion of the book.

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A heartfelt and skillfully written memoir that stands out for its unvarnished honesty and authentic voice, Somers shows us how the ever-exhausting world of parenting is on overdrive when raising a neurodiverse child, achieving this with sharp observations and clear delivery to her readers.”—Readers’ Favorite Review

Kathleen's raw vulnerability and honest portrayal of her experience shines a light on the challenges faced by families touched by autism. A poignant must-read for its insight and authenticity."—Linda Burger, Immediate Past chair of Disability Belongs

About the author


Kathleen Somers, a debut author, holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts from Temple University’s Tyler School of Art, and works as a freelance graphic designer and copywriter. She is a passionate observer of humanity who believes in the power of connection that comes from each of us sharing our individual stories, and the importance of authenticity when doing it. 

Having spent 24 years guiding her son through a disability most can’t see has not made her an authority on the topic. It’s having been the student to all that he has taught her that has brought her closer than anything ever will. 

When Kathleen isn’t busy with her career as a creative, she is out on her bike finding new roads to explore, or spending time with her son, opening his eyes to everything the world has to offer, both big and small. She lives with her family in the suburbs of Philadelphia. ~ Goodreads

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